Friday, September 20, 2019

Laundry Love: Where Love Never Ends and Neither Does Laundry

Rev. Jack Rogers, pastor of St. Anne's Episcopal Church in Millington is most concerned about children having clean clothes, to help ensure they go to school prepared to learn and are not subjected to bullying. 

On every other Tuesday of the month from 4-6:30 p.m., church friends and new acquaintances gather for Laundry Love, a community outreach ministry conducted by members of St. Anne’s Episcopal Church at Spin City, a bright, clean Laundromat with shiny new washers and dryers, in what had once been Millington’s McDonald’s, located at 4735 Navy Road.

As someone who worked at McDonald’s through high school and summers in college, it was a bit strange to walk in and find it transformed into a Laundromat. The restaurant had a nautical, Navy theme back then, red, white and blue with mirrored, brass portholes (which I polished many times) and military cartoons on the walls. Some of the booths have been retained to offer a place for people to sit, visit, listen to music, work on a computer or watch TV, while their clothes spin. And, on the particular Tuesday I visited, there was also food to share: cream of tomato soup, grilled cheese and bologna sandwiches, cookies, water and juice, brought in by volunteers from St. Anne’s, who have been offering this community ministry to those in need since 2017.

Much more than sandwiches, however, Laundry Love’s primary mission is to provide clean clothes to those in our community living on the margins. Laundry Love provides all the laundry products such as detergent, bleach, stain remover and dryer sheets, along with the funds needed for the washers and dryers, so struggling families can have clean clothes. Through this ministry, the limited funds that would have been spent on laundry can be used by Laundry Love patrons for other necessary items such as food, shelter, transportation, medicine or utility bills.

According to federal U.S. Census Bureau statistics, the poverty rate in Millington is more than 23 percent. Millington Municipal Schools also are classified as Title 1 by the U.S. Department of Education, which means Millington’s schools have a large concentration of low-income students. Families and individuals served by Laundry Love are most often referred to the ministry by the Millington Crisis Center, Millington Food Pantry and by administrators and teachers from Millington Municipal Schools, meeting federal poverty criteria and guidelines.

St. Anne’s volunteer Carrie Marcinko who helps to oversee the ministry says the idea of helping low-income families through clean clothes originated from a 30-hour training program called “Holy Currencies,” conducted by the Episcopal Diocese of West Tennessee to help congregations to move beyond time, talent and treasure to missions and ministries that reach outside their congregations into their neighborhoods.

Marcinko estimates that it costs her small, aging congregation of approximately 70 members around $300 each Tuesday a Laundry Love event is held. For a family of four the average cost for laundry every two weeks is about $20. She says more than 200 people have been helped through Laundry Love since its inception.

Rev. Jack Rogers, pastor of St. Anne’s is most concerned about children having clean clothes, to help ensure they go to school prepared to learn and are not subjected to bullying. “On Tuesdays, Spin City is an extension of St. Anne’s from a sacramental point of view, both an inward and outward sign of spiritual grace, particularly in how it makes people feel. I can be having the worst day, and leave Laundry Love feeling hopeful.” He stresses, Dressed for school in clean clothes, children “don’t get singled out, bullied or picked on.” He adds, building relationships with children through Laundry Love, “they have become less reserved as we tutor them, help them with homework and provide them with nutritious snacks. And for a third year, we’ve also helped many of them go to Mud Camp at St. Columba,” a summer day camp for children in the Memphis area.

William, an amputee, liver transplant recipient and U.S. Army veteran has been coming to Laundry Love since its beginnings. He says, Laundry Love “means everything to me. It helps put gas in my car and affords me the luxury of a sandwich or an extra can of beans.”

Kathy has been coming to Laundry Love since last winter. Her monthly income is about $700 for herself and a teenage girl in her care. Laundry Love “helps” she says. She uses the money she saves on laundry for transportation (gas). “I’ve struggled, but the pastor and this church, they do a lot for me.”

Clean clothes are something many of us may take for granted, but for families struggling to make ends meet, it can help them feel better about themselves and the challenges they may be facing, as well as preserve their sense of human dignity and self-worth.

Spin City owner Mark Hickey provides the venue and donates 10 percent of the monies spent by St. Anne’s each Tuesday, back to Laundry Love. If you are interested in helping the congregation of St. Anne’s with their Laundry Love mission in our community, or for more information about Laundry Love, contact the church at (901) 872-0303. St. Anne’s is located at 4063 Sykes Road in Millington.

Laundry Love’s mission is to provide laundry services for individuals and families in the Millington area who face financial challenges in getting their clothes cleaned. The profound effect of providing clean clothes and linens to those who are challenged daily to survive helps to raise their self-worth and dignity, especially the children who are less likely to be singled out for peer abuse and bullying. Acknowledging those living in poverty through this act of service brightens their lives through the blessing of wellness and fellowship.


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Hi, I'm Linda Cooper. I grew up here in Millington after my dad retired from the U.S. military, and I moved back as an adult to care for my ill and aging parents. They have since passed away, and I stayed.

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Linda Cooper is a freelance writer with more than 30 years of experience as a public relations practitioner, fundraiser, U.S. Senate press secretary and journalist. She holds a degree in journalism and political science from Mississippi University for Women.